Femdom, which is short for Female Domination, has been on the rise in recent years. It’s a thriving subculture with a global reach.
Mature femdom is a specific type of dominatrix play that focuses on the psychological aspects of domination and submission. It can be an incredibly enriching experience for both partners.
The origins of femdom
Female domination is an erotic phenomenon characterized by the exchange of power between a dominant and submissive woman. It is a consensual arrangement and is different from other sexual practices in which the male is the essentially dominant predator.
Femdoms have been a part of fetish and kink culture since at least the 1980s. However, they are often considered an underground phenomenon, and are not widely visible in the public sphere.
A femdom can be found in any scene or kink that involves a woman as the dominator. Often, the dominant female will identify as a dominatrix or domme, and is paid for her services.
Although femdoms are typically associated with black latex, fishnet tights, and stiletto heels, the practice of femdom is open to anyone who desires it. It is a powerful sexual experience that can be very fulfilling and rewarding.
If you are interested in learning more about this fetish, there is plenty of information available on the internet. You can also look for a femdom session or femdom group in your area.
There are many different femdom scenes and kinks, including bondage, ballbusting, CFNM, humiliation, facesitting, forced feminization, forced chastity, and pegging. Some of these kinks are used more frequently than others, so it is important to explore them all before making a decision about which one to choose.
The term femdom is also related to the concept of “female supremacy,” which refers to a belief that women are superior to men. While many femdoms don’t have these beliefs, they may be aroused by the idea of power and authority in bed.
BDSM can be very rewarding for both genders, and is a very mature form of sexuality. It can help both partners to understand themselves better, and it can help them to grow closer together.
Some of the best femdoms in the world are Bardot Smith, Only Theodora, Violet Doll, and Ceara Lynch. These femdoms have made a name for themselves in the industry, and they have become a staple of the BDSM community.
If you are interested in trying femdom, be sure to talk to your partner before taking the plunge into this role. It is important to establish your reasons for wanting to take on this role, and you must discuss why it is important to you as a couple. This will help you to avoid any misunderstandings or awkward moments later on.
The submissive role
The submissive role is one of the most important elements in femdom, and it’s also one of the easiest to get right. It is a relationship that requires communication, understanding of each other’s needs and boundaries, and patience.
This can help to make the relationship more successful and avoid any issues later on down the line, so it is always important to start out with good communication. You should both be open and honest about what you need from each other, and never disrespect your submissive partner’s limits.
A common mistake in this kind of relationship is to try to push their limits too much. This is a dangerous thing to do and can lead to problems in the future, so it’s important to be aware of these things early on.
If your submissive partner does want to go beyond their limits, you can ask them for a safe word that will tell you when they need to stop the action. It can be something as simple as “purple” to stop things completely, or it could be a series of words or other signals that you use to communicate with each other about when things have gone too far.
Some dominants might even use this technique in conjunction with other tactics, such as bondage or sadism. These techniques can be used to gratify sexual pleasure in the submissive, while also keeping the scene more controlled and predictable, Queen says.
Femdom can be a very powerful experience, and it can be intense or gentle depending on the dominant and their interests. In general, the dom is expected to assume a more parental role, and it can include more tenderness, care, and nurturance, says Queen.
She adds that a lot of people associate femdom with rougher and more intense play, but this isn’t necessarily true. It can be a gentle form of domination, and it can be enjoyed by anyone who’s not particularly interested in pain or rougher play.
It’s no secret that men are often attracted to the dominant role and women are often attracted to the submissive role, but it’s a tricky dynamic. In the past, a lot of men thought that being a man meant that they had more power than women, but now it is widely accepted that both sexes can be strong and dominant.
The dominatrix role
A dominatrix is a professional who engages in bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism (BDSM) with a submissive client. BDSM is a sexually fetishized power exchange that combines masochism and discipline to create an intense, erotic experience for the submissive partner.
Dominatrixes may have a physical office in a private space, like a bedroom, and they use this space to conduct sessions with their clients. They may also offer their services remotely over the phone, email, or online chat.
They might work for a pay per hour arrangement, or they might develop payment plans where they receive a monthly salary from their client. They often include gift-giving in their work, and they may give access to a client’s email or social media accounts.
Their attire typically consists of a latex dress, fishnet stockings, or other specialized fetish clothing and accessories. They may wear stiletto heels, leather thigh-high boots, or tight leather corsets to emphasize their dominant role in the relationship.
Having a dominant role in a BDSM session can be intimidating, but it is an important part of mature femdom. It can give you more confidence in the bedroom, and it can help your submissive partner feel more comfortable with you.
The dominant role can be incredibly rewarding, too. It can be a way to express the strength, intelligence, and intuition that many women have. It can also be an opportunity to create a fun and intimate kink scene with your submissive partner.
To be successful in the dominant role, it is important to make sure that you can command your submissive partner and tell them what to do. This can be done by speaking with confidence and making sure you are comfortable with giving commands.
You should also consider creating a safe word that your submissive can use to communicate with you when they need to take a break or slow down. This is a good way to ensure that you can still keep up the intensity without hurting your submissive or going over their limits.
Taking on the dominatrix role is a great way to explore your sexual fantasies and kinks with your submissive partner. It can be a powerful way to connect and feel more in love with them.
The dominant role
If you want to take your femdom to the next level, there are a few different ways you can play the dominant role. You can either use BDSM-related toys or you can simply make it more intense by using physical pain to force your submissive partner into submission.
Often, you can start by throwing her on the bed and ripping her clothes off. This is a very dominant move that shows her how much you can control her. It also allows her to let go of her reluctance to be submissive and open up into her feminine energy.
Once she has acquiesced to your dominance, you can then start to play with her sexually. This is where she will be most comfortable with you and most likely to orgasm.
Some women are happy to be submissive throughout the night, but there are others who prefer to dominate the moment. This is something that you can work on with your partner to see what she prefers and if it is something she will be comfortable with.
This type of femdom is sometimes called “masochism.” It is self-explanatorily more intense than the softer versions, and can include verbal humiliation, ownership, and the domme making decisions for her submissive.
There are a few things you can do to get started with this type of femdom, including playing around with BDSM-related toys and getting in touch with your inner cougar. You can also take your time and not try to push her to do something she isn’t ready for yet, which can help you both feel more comfortable and ensure the experience is enjoyable for both of you.
You can also try to use physical pain as a tool to force your submissive into submission, but don’t be afraid to be aggressive when you do this. You can use things like nipple clamps, handcuffs, whips and pegging strapons to inflict pain on your partner.
This is a very mature form of femdom and can be very rewarding for the domme, as she will be able to exercise her power over her sub. It’s not something that can be done every night and it will require a lot of patience on both sides, but it can be incredibly satisfying for both parties.