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Female domination is an increasingly popular kink for straight cis men, though not everyone experiences it the same way. Dommes often plan scenes to accommodate their sub’s needs and desires.
1. Become a sissy
Femdom can seem intimidating for some people, but it doesn’t have to involve hard leather and sexual toys. There are videos, real-life courses, and kink websites which provide guidance for exploring female dominance for anyone interested in exploring this fetish. Furthermore, couples may incorporate this sexual kink into their relationship seamlessly.
As part of your journey toward sissyhood, it’s essential that you establish what feminization fetishes mean to you. Some may view feminization fetishes as submissive behavior that involves giving away power in exchange for sexual humiliation or arousal; other may find this degrading and demeaning, since it portrays men as inferior beings.
Whatever definition you choose for yourself, it’s crucial that you discuss it with your Mistress so she can tailor your sissification desires towards meeting Her needs and wants. One great way to start this dialogue is attending local d/s or kink events which offer tight-knit communities where Mistresses and submissive sissies gather. Becoming part of such communities also allows you to meet Mistresses before beginning training processes – creating deeper and more intimate relationships in the long run.
2. Make him smooth all over
Femdom conjures images of hardcore domination and BDSM. However, gentler forms of female domination such as “soft play” may provide just as satisfying an experience for both partners – perfect for beginners to female domination and those seeking less-obtrusive ways of controlling their partner.
One way of doing this is to set out an “menu” of activities and pleasures for her submissive. On a given date, for instance, her mistress could order that the sub have her mouth and anus sucked by their mistress or to have their hands penetrated with a strapon dildo or other sex toy. Furthermore, for added pain relief or pleasure the mistress could add in something like lube or sex powder for extra pain relief during these moments of pleasureful torture for her submissive.
An engaging way of doing this is for the subordinate to create a list of desirable traits and personality styles that she would find appealing in her boss. They then put all these names into a bag, from which her mistress will select three characters for her sub to play; alternatively, she can use secret balloting so no one gets unfair advantage in the game.
3. Make him a slave
Mistresses use various means to bring their slaves back under their control, from whipping or slapping them, through making sexual tasks and humiliation humiliation and using implements like whips, canes and birches as tools of punishment; historically they would even employ special flogging machines like Berkley Horse.
There’s something fascinating about female dominance as an alluring sexual fetish. Women who enjoy taking control over men feel empowered and satisfied from having such control – be it within or beyond the bedroom setting.
Dominatrices and their subordinates often engage in various kinks that range from impact play to bondage or humiliation – it all comes down to what the domme prefers and finds satisfying in her role-play.
Some kinks may be harder than others, but that doesn’t always translate to increased intensity. Gentle femdom is often less intense and more gentle. Gentle Femdom involves verbal humiliation of slaves as well as their ownership with the Domme making decisions on behalf of her slave.
4. Make him a bull
There are various things you can do to make him feel like a bull, including Body Dysmorphic Sexual Mutilation (BDSM). One way this practice may be used by wives who use it against their partners – hotwife for husband referred to as cuck, hotwife being wife who goes out and has sex with another man known as “bull”. Bull is defined as someone with confidence and dominant personality who performs sexual acts with his body in order to bring on sexual excitement for both parties involved, this form of fetishism.
As bulls tend to have an instinctual attraction for women, he will compare himself with them and feel aroused by it. While most likely having sexual encounters with his wife directly, his humiliation could come in other forms such as being told to sit in a corner or Sisypheaning him; his pleasure can often come through such humiliation.
Porn doesn’t always provide an accurate representation of a femdom scene, so talking with your submissive about what excites both of you is recommended as is reading resources such as this femdom guide.
5. Make him a domme
A domme in BDSM is the female figure who dominates her slave through various means such as bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. While their role may cause pain or humiliation for their slave, it gives the domme immense pleasure as she asserts their authority and enforces dominance over her companion.
Femdom dommes can use toys to control their slaves’ erections, often to the maximum pleasure. They might use cock cages or chastity belts to stop him having an erection and playfully tease him into being intimate with them instead. Or they might playfully remind their sub that touching, talking dirty, kissing or otherwise engaging is forbidden!
Femdom idea #2: Play with your slave’s orgasms. Playfully hypnotize her by massaging her neck, shoulders, back or feet teasingly or pain-control her orgasms so they wait until the perfect moment to manifest themselves.
Femdom mistress roles can be both engaging and intimate experiences for you and your partner, but mastering them requires practice and dedication. Starting slowly is best; observe and interact with online femdom communities like Reddit for guidance as you begin this new venture.
6. Make him a master
When people think of female dominance, many envision an image filled with black leather jackets, fishnet tights, and toys. But reality shows us that it doesn’t need to be so intense; rather it can involve simple instructions on what the partner should do or even simple verbal humiliation or simple pulling of hair or light choking of one of your partners.
Those new to femdom should seek guidance from an experienced dominatrix for optimal experiences. A professional will assess your needs and introduce you to activities that bring the greatest pleasure; such as gentle sessions featuring teasing/denial/sensory play (using different temperatures on one dildo at the same time), sensation play or leash walking, according to Couple.
Financial Femdom involves women believing men should subordinate themselves to them and act as money slaves; also referred to as the “human ATM” or cash pig role. This fetish is popular among cishtet women looking for the thrill of dominance without engaging in sexual relations with their partners.
7. Make him a slave again
Femdom is an amalgamation of female and dominance, an offshoot of BDSM that involves an empowered woman dominating over an underserved partner. Though often associated with heteronormativity couples, many people who enjoy femdom do it solo and as individuals.
Feminine dominance can be an exciting way to challenge and engage your man. Perhaps he must wear a uniform or be escorted by you publicly, or perhaps you ask him to shave himself every morning while wearing high heels all day; there are endless possibilities!
Femdom mistresses who prefer dominance via phone or computer can use creative punishments and degrading commands that would otherwise be difficult, like making him write an essay or shop for things he doesn’t need; you could also assign research tasks, photo assignments or have them join a slave registry.
While some of these ideas may appear harsh, it’s important to keep in mind that both parties benefit from Femdom. Femdom can be very stimulating for both sub and Dom, helping build trust within relationships.